dagblog - Comments for "The Acceptable Woman: Sexism in Progressivism" http://dagblog.com/reader-blogs/acceptable-woman-sexism-progressivism-20281 Comments for "The Acceptable Woman: Sexism in Progressivism" en Thanks for the links, TMC. http://dagblog.com/comment/218068#comment-218068 <a id="comment-218068"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/218048#comment-218048">Okidoki, here we go, I think</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>Thanks for the links, TMC. There is definitely sexism at work here, as I acknowledged before, but I think we should be careful about what we're calling sexist.</p> <p>1) Attacking Hillary is not inherently sexist. This is what happens to candidates in a contentious election.</p> <p>2) Attacking Hillary's character or personality is not inherently sexist. Women have personal flaws just like men, and those flaws are fair game in politics. No one bats an eyelash when people attack Ted Cruz's personality.</p> <p>3) Attacking Hillary using Republican talking points is not inherently sexist. Sanders supporters naturally look for Hillary's weaknesses. That they emphasize the same weaknesses as Republicans does not make them sexist.</p> <p>4) Being an asshole is not inherently sexist. If you think Sanders' supporters are being mean to Hillary, you should read what Republicans are saying about one another.</p> <p>That said, any of these attacks may be sexist. The telltale giveaway is gendered language. When people use words like "bitchy," when they complain about ambitious or aggressive women, when they criticize Hillary's feminism, or when they accuse her of trying to be manly, it's obvious misogyny, and we should call it out.</p> <p>Of course, misogyny can be veiled, but then it's a gray zone. Maybe someone hates Hillary because he's sexist. Or maybe she just rubs him the wrong way. It happens. And it doesn't serve Hillary well for her supporters to accuse anyone who dislikes her of harboring sexist attitudes.</p> </div></div></div> Mon, 01 Feb 2016 01:02:37 +0000 Michael Wolraich comment 218068 at http://dagblog.com Great links, Teri.  Thanks http://dagblog.com/comment/218055#comment-218055 <a id="comment-218055"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/218048#comment-218048">Okidoki, here we go, I think</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>Great links, Teri.  Thanks for putting the work into it.  Very useful.</p> </div></div></div> Sun, 31 Jan 2016 16:46:19 +0000 Ramona comment 218055 at http://dagblog.com Sorry, yes, I thought that http://dagblog.com/comment/218053#comment-218053 <a id="comment-218053"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/218051#comment-218051">And there is this point as</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>Sorry, yes, I thought that was the main point - guess I didn't say it.</p> </div></div></div> Sun, 31 Jan 2016 15:51:59 +0000 PeraclesPlease comment 218053 at http://dagblog.com You might want to touch on http://dagblog.com/comment/218050#comment-218050 <a id="comment-218050"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/218048#comment-218048">Okidoki, here we go, I think</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>You might want to touch on how Howard Dean's wife was treated - the nerve that a professional doctor wouldn't just turn into a campaign mule. And I think there was something about her looks - or maybe a lot about her looks. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2004/01/15/opinion/the-doctor-is-out.html">Welcome Maureen Dowd</a>, the scourge of feminism in the name of feminism, or <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2004/01/13/us/2004-campaign-ex-governor-s-wife-other-doctor-dean-s-house-shuns-politics.html?_r=0">just concern trolling </a>from the dependable NYTimes. [yeah, she wasn't the candidate, so slightly off-topic, but still related]</p> </div></div></div> Sun, 31 Jan 2016 15:28:43 +0000 PeraclesPlease comment 218050 at http://dagblog.com And there is this point as http://dagblog.com/comment/218051#comment-218051 <a id="comment-218051"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/218050#comment-218050">You might want to touch on</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>And there is this point as well. She just wanted to do her job, and stay out of politics like she always had, nothing is ever good enough. </p> </div></div></div> Sun, 31 Jan 2016 15:06:33 +0000 tmccarthy0 comment 218051 at http://dagblog.com Okidoki, here we go, I think http://dagblog.com/comment/218048#comment-218048 <a id="comment-218048"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/217818#comment-217818">Tmc, I guess that I didn&#039;t</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>Okidoki, here we go, I think you want links. Let's deal with <a href="http://radioboston.wbur.org/2012/09/13/payne-warren">Elizabeth Warren</a> first and the time she wasn't the Acceptable Woman, because it actually wasn't that long ago.  It isn't because of Warren's policies at the time that she is being critiqued for </p> <blockquote> <p><strong>Meghna Chakrabarti: Tell us what you think is wrong with the Warren campaign.</strong></p> <p>Dan Payne: It’s her advertising. Her television commercials seem to turn off people. Women have told me they find her hectoring, they don’t like her attitude, she’s school marmish. These are the opinions of people who <em>support</em> her.</p> </blockquote> <p>They find her hectoring... hmmm, if you read the article it is quite maddening. So like I said, even though she is the Acceptable Woman, currently, she also was the unAcceptable woman, which always happens. Which is what I also state above, this isn't really a proving contest for women, this is a, yeah, we have all been her, and this has been a very maddening and annoying experience for some of us.</p> <p><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/h-a-goodman/why-will-bernie-sanders-win_b_8836350.html">HA Goodman</a>, I think he writes for Huff and Salon, is a great one for using Republican attacks against HRC. I don't actually know who he is and he just seemed to appear this year, but maybe because he is so virulent in his attacks on HRC's character is the only reason I've ever heard of him. Who knows. </p> <p><a href="http://www.salon.com/2015/11/30/more_like_reagan_than_fdr_im_a_millennial_and_ill_never_vote_for_hillary_clinton/">Walter Bragman</a>, Salon, also a guy who uses Republican attacks against her.</p> <blockquote> <p><strong>1) Hillary’s personality repels me (and many others).</strong></p> </blockquote> <p>He begins his critique with her personality?? And this Bragman fellow actually writes a blog saying let's <a href="http://www.salon.com/2016/01/17/fine_give_the_gop_four_years_the_liberal_case_for_either_bernie_sanders_or_electing_a_republican_president/">let the GOP</a> have four years, we can't allow HRC to be elected?? Umm, how Republican does that sound to you, I've heard my father is say it to me, just about two weeks ago, my dad is not a Democrat.  I don't know, these are some upper-middle class men, who always get by, so for him, he doesn't give a rats ass what happens, women have to care, that is a major difference here, we have to care, or we lose everything. </p> <p>Here and there DAG itself is smattered with Republican attacks against HRC, attacks on her responsibility for her husbands philandering to me are Republican Atwater style attacks.  I don't expect them from progressives, I am always pretty shocked when it happens. </p> <p>I have more:</p> <p><a href="http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2015/11/hillary_clinton_bernie_sanders_sexist_coverage_some_men_want_to_mansplain.html">Men Explain Hillary to Me</a>: Michelle Goldberg</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <div class="media_embed" height="315px" width="560px"><iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315px" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/1eXyePlaWxY" width="560px"></iframe></div> <p> </p> <p>I don't know if this <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eXyePlaWxY">embed is working</a> so here is the link to the horrifying video, sheesh, please don't tell me even liberals aren't infected but this sexist BS. The one guy who tries to defend HRC is shot down instantly and he is instantly swayed, WTF? They are saying all the things Republicans have ever said about her.  I don't know. I guess I could gather 100 links and it might not be enough, so I'll leave you with that.</p> <p>Now off to painting the family room.</p> <p>edited to add: The <a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/evanmcsan/the-bernie-bros?utm_term=.bvNBOKdddG#.kiJpX1KKKe">Sanders</a> campaign is <a href="http://mashable.com/2016/01/29/bernie-sanders-berniebros/#MMHkXK67dmqn">pretty worried</a> about this. </p> <p> </p> </div></div></div> Sun, 31 Jan 2016 15:04:45 +0000 tmccarthy0 comment 218048 at http://dagblog.com Thanks Mona, most women I http://dagblog.com/comment/217984#comment-217984 <a id="comment-217984"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/217916#comment-217916">Thank you, Teri.  Seems</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>Thanks Mona, most women I know see it plainly before their eyes. Most men, not all, seem the need for more proof. Sunday I will deliver that proof.</p> <p>t.</p> </div></div></div> Fri, 29 Jan 2016 19:27:56 +0000 tmccarthy0 comment 217984 at http://dagblog.com Thank you, Teri.  Seems http://dagblog.com/comment/217916#comment-217916 <a id="comment-217916"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/reader-blogs/acceptable-woman-sexism-progressivism-20281">The Acceptable Woman: Sexism in Progressivism</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>Thank you, Teri.  Seems pretty clear to me!  Well done.</p> </div></div></div> Thu, 28 Jan 2016 01:15:27 +0000 Ramona comment 217916 at http://dagblog.com I LOVE THIS SONG. http://dagblog.com/comment/217905#comment-217905 <a id="comment-217905"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/217814#comment-217814">As long as we&#039;re dealing with</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>I LOVE THIS SONG.</p> <p>I have not listened to it for many years.</p> <p>THANK YOU PERACLES!</p> </div></div></div> Thu, 28 Jan 2016 00:36:47 +0000 Richard Day comment 217905 at http://dagblog.com I am not ignoring you MW, I http://dagblog.com/comment/217875#comment-217875 <a id="comment-217875"></a> <p><em>In reply to <a href="http://dagblog.com/comment/217818#comment-217818">Tmc, I guess that I didn&#039;t</a></em></p> <div class="field field-name-comment-body field-type-text-long field-label-hidden"><div class="field-items"><div class="field-item even"><p>I am not ignoring you MW, I promise to respond with all the links necessary, I hope to do it by Sunday, it's  6 day work week this week... Romeo and Juliette season. But I think you make valid points. </p> <p> </p> <p>tmac</p> </div></div></div> Wed, 27 Jan 2016 14:53:51 +0000 tmccarthy0 comment 217875 at http://dagblog.com