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    "My Treat" for Veteran's Day

    I saw a friend of mine today who happens to be a Veteran. I asked him if he had partaken of any of the free meals for Veterans offered by many of the local restaurants.

    Well, he said, he hadn't really even thought of it before stopping to get a bite on Monday. And then he kinda grinned and I knew there was a story to be told.

    Brian and his wife had stopped at a Culver's on Veteran's Day and were waiting in line behind an elderly woman. They really weren't paying attention until they heard the woman ask if it was necessary for her husband to come into the store to get his free ice cream sundae.

    "He's a Korean Veteran," she said "but he doesn't get around too well anymore and he's waiting outside in the car." She motioned toward the door. "I can get him in here if I have to."

    My friend Brian looked in the direction she had motioned and saw an older model Chevy at the curb in the handicapped parking spot. In the passenger seat sat a man, his grey-face peering anxiously into the store. He appeared to be about the same age as the old woman, and so Brian assumed that he was in fact the Veteran husband of the elderly lady.

    "They're giving free ice cream sundaes to Veterans" said Brian's wife, tugging at his sleeve. She had obviously overheard the old woman herself. "Are you going to get one?"

    "Oh, are you a Veteran, too?" the woman asked, turning Brian's way even as the clerk was explaining that it wouldn't be necessary for the old man to appear in person at the counter to get his free ice cream.

    "Well, yes" said Brian. "Army. Two tours in Iraq."

    "Well, you better get your free ice cream sundae" she said.

    "So what'll you have?" asked the clerk.

    "Oh!" she said, turning back to the counter. "George would like a cashew caramel sundae."

    "Will that be all?"

    "Yes."

    The clerk stepped away.

    "Aren't you getting one for yourself?" asked Brian.

    "Well, no," was the reply, and she lowered her voice a bit. "Doctor says I shouldn't and besides, they're priced a little out of our budget, you know? Retirement monies just don't go far, but I thought George deserved a treat, especially on Veteran's Day."

    The woman turned back to the counter to await her husband's treat. Brian looked her over, noticing the frayed collar on her coat and the button missing midway down its front.

    "Here you go, ma'am." said the clerk sliding the single-scoop sundae across the counter. "And please wish your husband a Happy Veteran's Day from all of us."

    The woman set about grabbing a few napkins as the clerk turned toward Brian.

    "And you sir? What can I get you?"

    "Free sundaes for Veterans?" asked Brian.

    "Indeed!" said the clerk. "Can I get you one?"

    "Not for me," Brian said. "But how about giving mine to this woman over here."

    The woman looked up from where she was stashing paper napkins into her purse, a somewhat surprised look on her face upon determining that Brian was referring to her.

    "Caramel cashew sound good?" Brian asked.

    "Well, yeah... um... sure!" the woman answered, still somewhat perplexed.

    "You better have one for yourself" Brian said by way of answering the questioning look. His voice then became even a little bit gruff, although still kind."Ain't no way a Korean Vet should have to share his special ice cream treat. Not on Veteran's Day, anyway. You better have one for yourself."

    The old woman laughed, almost a giggle.

    "Why, thank you young man" she said, and she put her things down before pulling him to her for a hug. And then she kissed him on the cheek before gathering her things and receiving the second sundae. Brian watched her as she stepped out the door and into the car, where both husband and wife would eat their ice cream treats before even leaving their parking space.

    "My treat!" Brian whispered, just loud enough for his wife to overhear. And he claims it is the very best ice cream sundae he never ate.

     

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    Aw, Sleepin'...this made me tear up a little. Brian is cool. You can tell him I said so. smiley ... Shift+R improves the quality of this image. Shift+A improves the quality of all images on this page.

    Thanks for the tellin'.


    sj, like flower, this brought immediate tears to my eyes too.

    While Brian's kindness and awareness is indeed heartwarming, we need to focus on what we can do to ensure they are better taken care of when they come home.  Shame on us. 


    Well I am in good company here knowing that others, like me, teared up over this story... Thanks for sharing it:)


    Wonderful story Sleepin!

    Thank you.

    I had so many friends who came to college from Viet Nam.

    Of the high school friends who ended up there, I just recall the changes in their demeanor when they returned.

    Three of them were just plain crazy!

    One brought home pix of him sitting on a pile of skulls. No kidding!

    I recall one compatriot at school who was always 'up' and laughing and friendly.

    The rest were dour indeed.

    My father was nuts. And as I look back I recall his recollections of traveling through Europe and weeping over the piles and piles of dead soldiers on the battle fields whilst in his drink!

    He had been 18 and 19 during the years of his tenure in WWII.

    And after all, it is the teenager along with those in their early twenties who bear the brunt.

    Nice story!


    Amen Sleepin'.  I don't think I've read anything so beautiful in ages.  Thanks brother.

     


    Really lovely, Sleepin.  So glad the story is about a Korean War vet.  They've always been the forgotten ones, as if the "conflict" was not a real war; as if more than 33,000 American battle deaths didn't count--as if lives weren't changed by what they saw and did during wartime.

    But every vet deserves a treat--not just on Veteran's Day but every day.  We could start with unconditional health care and help with jobs that actually reflect our admiration for them. 

    "Thank you for your service" has to mean something more than just a howdy-do. Otherwise it's about on par with "Have a nice day."

    You listening, Washington?


    Just consider the fact that one of every four homeless men are veterans. I cannot help but think of this figure whenever Veteran's Day or Memorial Day rolls around, with their parades and bunting and flags and militarism and expressions of deep civic pride. It almost seems like hearts pumped too full of patriotism and nationalism leave little room for compassion.


    I don't know how we got like this.  It wasn't always this way.  We have an obligation to anyone who gives up even a few years of their civilian lives to enter service for our country.  That should be a given.  Yet congress seems to have no problem with cutting veterans' medical care or learning that  veterans' family members are on food stamps because the pay is too low.

    There is no sense of shame in Washington and this is the proof.


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