MURDER, POLITICS, AND THE END OF THE JAZZ AGE
by Michael Wolraich
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MURDER, POLITICS, AND THE END OF THE JAZZ AGE by Michael Wolraich Order today at Barnes & Noble / Amazon / Books-A-Million / Bookshop |
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from The Daily Beast, of course: Robert Kraft Caught on Video Getting Handjob and Paying $100, Florida Authorities Say Billionaire New England Patriots owner allegedly paid for sex hours before flying off to see his team play in a championship game.
by artappraiser on Mon, 02/25/2019 - 10:25pm
So I think we're still straddling the fence here, even though women brought to the US under false pretense or basically slavery is a no go, morally abhorrent.
But are we going to continue with the "you go girl" support for sex workers, that it's okay for them to sell their bodies, but not okay for men to buy their bodies? For many they've chosen to commerce themselves for survival - and we'll say that's understandable, while taking away the revenue from that chance of their chance of survival?
(and efforts to license prostitutes in Germany, get them on the tax and health records, have basically failed - unlike pot dispensaries, prostitution is not an area that lends itself to normalization.)
Why is it okay to make porn films for men & some women to get off on, to have women perform sex acts for pay in those, but not directly for the customer she's supposed to be titillating? is touch so bad? does sexual contact outside marriage or dating norms, in a transactional context, break the human?
And am I the only one to find these hidden cams with detailed description in The Daily Beast rather creepy, a form of state+media voyeurism?
“This is not about lonely old men and victimless crimes, this is about forcing women into our country for forced labor and sex,” Aronberg said.
Except the article focuses on lonely (or simply horny and busy) old men and a victimless crime (I pretty much see a handjob as less onerous than cleaning someone's teeth or performing a routine rectal exam or taking care of seniors/long-term patients or even cleaning someone's house in general)
I'd *like* to focus on the treatment of the immigrants, but everyone keeps getting lost in the easy shock stuff - famous football owner doing something dirty. Like why do people make money in the first place but to get more sex, travel, fancy homes/cars/boats/whatever.
by PeraclesPlease on Tue, 02/26/2019 - 5:12am
And am I the only one to find these hidden cams with detailed description in The Daily Beast rather creepy, a form of state+media voyeurism?
No you're not the only one. They sound like the National Enquirer.
I don't know what to say about it. I think us with more liberal mores are complicit in encouraging that kind of coverage in that we have schadenfreude when someone who is Republican or conservative gets caught involved in sex work some way. Because it is contra the "family values" branding, it's hypocritical, so we get glee and sleazier journos will pander to that.
But if serious crime is going on, like trafficking, it should be covered like serious crime, not like a "ha ha gotcha" thing.
And then with this one it's also a "developing", is this really the horrible trafficking situation cops say it is? Or are they some sort of sick crusading Puritans?
I am conflicted just like you. What doesn't help the situation: Trump's obsession with zany fantasical duct-tape sex trafficking stories cross-border. Makes one question whether all this stuff is right wing fantasy bogeyman stuff.
Was therefore happy to see New York Times try to dig into the story, an outfit with at least some serious editors. That they chose to highlight that quote about "The monsters are the men", I like that, it sent a message that there is some kind of crusade going on here, and we don't know what the full story is yet. The reporter tried to be fair and find out what she could as facts. Didn't downplay that if the victims are real as claimed, it is horrible crime. But: no victim stories yet from victims. They are conveniently (or not) gone with the wind.
But sensationalist coverage ala "gotcha on sex crime, right wing guy!", I don't think that's a good thing at all.
by artappraiser on Tue, 02/26/2019 - 1:25pm
I am reminded that Cindy McCain is a big believer in the trafficking problem and even something of an activist on it:
This doesn't help me that much. I don't doubt her sincerity of belief. It's a "reform the world" mentality that seems to believe it is a huge problem. McCain, was after all, a fan of Mother Teresa, enough so to want to adopt an Ethiopian baby from an affiliated orphange.
by artappraiser on Tue, 02/26/2019 - 3:06pm
Dropping this here: black man complains about female attentions damaging over course of career.
(slight mention of that Bermuda slave-reenactment sex bazaar kinda stuff...)
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2019/feb/27/white-privilege-is-used-by...
by PeraclesPlease on Wed, 02/27/2019 - 12:48pm
Objectification: it's a mixed bag of positive and negative, results may vary. I always return to thinking about one group that is all for it: drag queens, they'd kill for wolf whistles. Also there's this: before you know it, you're too old to be objectified.
by artappraiser on Wed, 02/27/2019 - 1:04pm
Wolf whistles are one thing - I once had a bunch of frat boys chase me through the streets cause I was wearing something too outré while performing, so even that attention has its bounds (fortunately I was pretty fast in those days). And there's usually objectification - it just goes from better to worse.
by PeraclesPlease on Wed, 02/27/2019 - 2:01pm
speaking of objectification and drag queens, reality vs. curated reality vs. fake reality etc.
“Pandemonium Broke Out” When the Season 11 Queens Crashed a “Drag Race” College Course
by artappraiser on Thu, 02/28/2019 - 4:23am
Interesting to hear a British perspective.
One thing black men learn is that if you have a disagreement with a white woman in the office setting, if she cries, you are toast. Sociologist Robin DiAngelo discusses this in her book “White Fragility “.
https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/a-sociologist-examines-the-white-fragility-that-prevents-white-americans-from-confronting-racism
by rmrd0000 on Wed, 02/27/2019 - 2:44pm
I noticed this comment and article only because Maggie Haberman retweeted it:
by artappraiser on Fri, 03/22/2019 - 5:42pm
Bring on the robots.
by PeraclesPlease on Fri, 03/22/2019 - 6:10pm
Why does she wish she hadn't seen it? I've seen similar statements from young men with severe disabilities. Perhaps this is the so called gulf of understanding between men and women that can't be crossed. Perhaps it's cultural. Perhaps it's biological, the effects of high testosterone or evolution in general. For what ever reason men seem to have a sex drive that exceeds women's. We can mostly agree on the problems of prostitution. How it mostly comes out of a sexist culture that often deprives women of meaningful economic choices. How it's often coercive and oppressive. If we had a less puritanical culture we could regulate prostitution to protect women. Would it still be "disgusting" for a 77 year old man to pay to get a hand job? Is it some how less disgusting for an old man to masturbate? Or should men of a certain age simply stop having orgasms?
by ocean-kat on Fri, 03/22/2019 - 6:17pm