How can it be problematic? I've been informed here quite strenuously that gender is what ever a person says they are. As Lila said, "I am a girl." Several people here have explained to me that the fact that she has a penis is irrelevant.

Funny thing, I can support free speech without having to believe in the speech. As goes the old cliche, "I disagree with everything you say but I will defend your right to say it."

I can support freedom of religion without having to believe in the fantasies of the religious. No one seems to challenge that.

But for some reason I can't support the rights of transgendered unless I believe that they are women or men simply because they say they are.

The plight of LBGT is horrible and they certainly deserve to have their civil rights protected. But imo men do not become women and women do not become men just because they say they are. If Lila is a girl because she says she is then she has the right to use the girl's locker room. The other girls will just have to get accustomed to seeing her penis.