When it comes to death, he never seems to be able to avoid

sol·e·cism

/ˈsäləˌsizəm,ˈsōləˌsizəm/

noun

noun: solecism; plural noun: solecisms

1. a grammatical mistake in speech or writing.

   synonyms:(grammatical) mistake, error, blunder; More

   • a breach of good manners; a piece of incorrect behavior.

     synonyms:faux pas, gaffe, breach of etiquette, impropriety, piece of indecorum, social indiscretion, inappropriate behavior, infelicity, slip, error, blunder, miscalculation, lapse;

     gaucherie; 

     informal  slip-up, boo-boo, fail; 

     informal boob, clanger, bloomer;

     informal floater; 

     informal goof, blooper, bloop

Speaking of talking about it, I liked Booman's piece, thank you. I also found this good about how not to feed the trolling with all these mass murder for attention events:

How to Talk About the New Zealand Massacre: More Sunlight, Less Oxygen

By Evan Osnos @ NewYorker.com, 6:21 P.M.

[....] The New Zealand killer did not exact his violence in America, but he would be at home in our statistics: in the past decade, seventy-three per cent of all American extremist-related killings have come from the right wing, compared to twenty-three per cent from Salafi jihadism and three per cent from the left wing, according to the Soufan Center, which studies global security.

Pointing out those patterns does not feed oxygen to the sources; it subjects them to the disinfecting power of sunlight. We can only have an honest analysis of the sources of this violence if we understand how it grows and spreads. That applies not only to the role of journalism but also to the role of technology. Whenever a killer relies, as he did in this case, on the Internet to amplify the effects of his terror, some inevitably defend social media as no better and no worse than the humanity that uses it. Don’t blame the hammer, we are told; blame the hand. At best, that is a deflection. One does not have to be a Luddite to believe that the worst of social media is not a mirror image of us; it is a grotesque distortion, a funhouse mirror that bulges and squeezes and disfigures us in ways that mock our humanity instead of reinforcing it [....]