The Exhibitionist society

     

     

    What is the sensationalist media coverage of events like the Rachel Dolezal identity case and the Texas pool party disturbance telling us about society? Why do we partake of the media coverage? If those two events seem compelling, wait until we hear more about the white cop who shot his wife in her car while other cops were trying to negotiate with him---then while his dead wife lay in the car, along with his child, his fellow cops comforted him once he gave up. So, there I go again.

    The most positive thing I can conclude about the recording and sensationalizing of these events is that our society is long overdue in facing our racial divides, the violence toward women, and our prejudice against forms of sexual behavior which may be different from our own (to name a few things) and that the constant media coverage is helping us over the hurdles of our own reluctance to change and to become more tolerant of the differences of others---and, in the case of perps, their similarities.  

    The white perception of people of color as "scary", "less-than", and "exploitable" runs so deep in the subconscious that it is almost impossible to isolate. The universal disseminating of films of white police exerting force against blacks is a necessary step in revealing innate prejudice against blacks.

    In it's primal form, I think the white policeman looks at a person who is black and sees the color and its connotation before he sees the person and actual behavior. When he looks at a white person he sees the person and his actual behavior.  I've observed this phenomena over a lifetime---which includes my youth when the black kids had their own swimming pool which we called the "ink well".

    It's my belief that the now constant media juxtaposition of police toward white vs.toward blacks serves a purpose in that eventually pure racism in these situations will become self-evident and popular attitudes as well as police attitudes will change. If not, our society will stagnate. But I am concerned about the exhibitionism within the media process.

    What puzzles me most about the Dolezal case and got me to thinking about exhibitionism is the actions of the parents, particularly their interview on Fox News. (For the moment I'll exclude the interview with Rachel's brother). Rachel is not a mass murderer nor does she represent a danger to society. The fact that the parents engaged in the interview indicates to me that gaining the fame of a national interview is more important to them than the welfare of their own daughter. The parents are first rate exhibitionists who demonstrated the behavior of dissecting their young---not behavior that can sustain a society.

    Perhaps exhibitionism is the root cause of all societal collapse. The roaring twenties was followed by financial disaster and world war. The desire for "anything goes if it makes me feel all precious and people see me doing it" is a version of let's eat the seed corn and revel all night long. I could mention the fall of Rome, the Ottoman Empire, and Easter Island---but I won't.

    As I began to write this piece a red-shouldered hawk alighted on a fence post about forty yards away from me. They are normally too reclusive to land so near but the slight fog on my windows from all the rain obscured my movements enough for me to grapple for my binoculars and watch him as he searched for breakfast. Oh, a small snake. Normal behavior for a hawk. How refreshing, I thought.

     

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    I have a much stronger negative reaction to her parents than I do Rachel. From all accounts their daughter has been living her life in a mostly fulfilling and socially conscious way - raising children, teaching, and volunteering in a leadership role with the NAACP. Whatever else can rightly be scrutinized, she wasn't the one who created the "exhibition". Her parents are serving their own purposes, with little to no regard for Rachel or anyone else.

    I don't see the pool party incident in the same vein as her story. That atrocity needed to be seen, and that officer clearly brought it on himself. If it hadn't become a media exhibition he would still be on the job doing the same sort of thing, or worse.


    Thanks, barefooted. I thought the parents' interview was despicable.

    The pool party hit me pretty close to home and the best I can say is that I feel fortunate that officer Casebolt was removed from the scene before a real tragedy occurred.

    I may be a cockeyed optimist, but I think the repeated publishing of these events will eventually change attitudes in a positive way. Then again, I might be all wet.


    I saw the post you wrote after the pool incident, and wondered why you took it down. Clearly no one here had a more birds-eye view of the significance and dangerous potential of that event.

    Citizen journalism is proving to be invaluable, but there are pitfalls. Unfortunately the deluge of sensational videos posted online makes it too easy for the public to be overwhelmed - the media becomes the gatekeeper of what's relevant. Scary thought, that.

    At least some folks are learning to turn the phone sideways. ;-)


    I was just too close and incensed by the McKinney incident to be able to write about it with perspective. I guess what i'm trying to say here is that sensationalism has a purpose if it moves us collectively ahead. Otherwise it's just exhibitionism---which will eventually eat us from the inside out.


    This essay brings up too many thoughts.

    As an aside (and I told Q recently, all I have are asides lately) O'Reilly gets two to three million viewers every night.

    That is less than one percentage point as far as our population.

    But hell I don't get but anywhere near that amount when I rant and scream.

    What sells?

    So it becomes a matter of sales, I guess.

    This new abomination in Charleston, SC takes over all media.

    So FOX says the killings were due to anti-religious orgs?

    Even though the killer was yelling about the Ni&%$rs.

    And FOX only hits one percent of our population at best.

    And yet we are so afraid.

    Or I am anyway.

    I have not viewed one reality show in twenty years, except for by accident.

    I do not even count the singers' reality shows, because these shows are just variety shows, really.

    Why should I care if a guy seeks surgical changes?

    I don't care.

    What should I care if a Black Person pretends to be White?

    So should I care that a White Person pretends to be Black?

    All I can do is change channels.

    I may do my own blog about this.

    There are commercials on TV that make me so damn mad I change channels or hit the mute.

    I think it was Momoe who intimated that she does not care, I mean there are people dying from gun play and pollution and car accidents and the lack of health care and....

    In the end, we all have Black Blood and the Blacks all have White Blood and...

    What the hell was the question again?

     


    That's a good question.

    Hell, I don't know.

    I loved Peggy Lee, or was it Peggy Sue? Is that all there is?

    Andy Warhol might have been our greatest cultural critic.

    Why would parents trash their own child just to get on T.V. Bastards.

    What motivates a terrorist---exhibition, fame, immortality? Fifteen minutes is too short.

    Why do we do this?

    Who cares about Kim's rump?

    I care about you.

    What was your question?

     


    My theme song. 


    THIS IS DELIGHTFUL, Momoe.

    Just delightful.

    I will listen to this for the rest of the week. hahahahahah

    I really like this!


    Yeah, now you are making fun of me. hahahahaha

    I lose track of the original? question sometimes.

    I do not care about Kim's rump although Jalos?

    I lose ....well I lose something. hahahahaha

    But Peggy Sue...

     


    Mr. Day, you are the soul of this site. Love you, buddy.


    I do not wish to bug you Oxy, but what the hell are they arguing about at rmrd?

    I do not understand the argument.

    Do some folks wish to keep the Confederate Flag?

    Why?

    This is all out of the context of your blog.

    But I cannot figure out the angst or the anger or the dispute?

    Sorry to bother you, I just cannot figure this out.


    Hey, Mr. Day. If you mean the discussions here lately, not sure I understand them either.

    I don't think anyone here wishes to keep the Confederate flag.

    However, there is a strong desire to keep the TPM flag flying here.

    Personally, I'm, like you, almost jubilant at the announcements of yesterday. Then I wonder if i'm a victim of the Stockholm syndrome. 

    Will this tragedy inch us forward in revealing what racism is, and how society moves beyond it? I hope so. Is taking the flag down going to address our militarism, oligarchy, trashing of the environment?  Maybe indirectly. 

    We are cockeyed optimists. Keep your flag flying.   

     


    Well, I'll toss out 1 last summary of points I tried to make.

    1) I love Ken Kesey - I thought someone would know the Sometimes A Great Notion reference and appreciate the ending. No, the bird wasn't pointed at anyone.

    2) while the left was winning on the flag, it lost big on TPA/TPP. Hold that flag close to your pocket book.

    3) The flag is of course freedom of speech - the flag on the courthouse isn't.

    4) Flags usually symbolize war and violence.

    5) Yes the rebel flag was tied to secession, the fight against the north, the fight to preserve the horrid institution of slavery. But it was also tied to southern pride as well as resistance to Civil Rights. Some people love it, some people hate it. As for the public courthouse it's pretty obvious that those who hate it should win. The Confederate flag is coming down in multiple states. 

    6) The British put India into subservience over 120 years under that grand Union Jack,reversed in 1947. The French put Algeria under servitude for 150 years until 1961, when they killed 1 million Algerians struggling for independence. If you think slavery died in 1865, you weren't paying attention.

    7) violence to blacks keeps occurring across the country, certainly not just southern states. Bringing down the flag helps with symbolism, but there will be quite some effort to turn symbolism into reality, at least past this week's news blips. A lot of other battles to fight.

    That's my take on the situation - y'all might think different.


    Exhibitionism and Voyeurism are completely natural but many people doesn't want to talk about them. It is great that you wrote this article so that more and more people could understand. I also so a great reference about Exhibitionism on https://www.fapshows.com/blog/exhibitionism-and-voyeurism-why-they-re-completely-natural


    Right, I get the reptilian level.

    It's the abstract levels which make me curious---the meaningless, self-defeating, pre-occupied, nihilistic behaviors which indicate that societal bonds are coming unglued.  


    I don't think the process is driven by the desire to be seen as much as it is driven by the desire to disappear. The media looks like a process of display but it is not.

    Only the losers of whatever game is being played are bound in stocks in the commons.

     


    Moat, great insights here. To my mind they are losers and their special anonymity is along the line of "escape from freedom".  

    But once more than 20% of the population is bound up in stocks in the commons, commerce fails, common stocks plunge, society collapses.  


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